Rom-coms per Scriptshadow
Saw the posts below about Scriptshadow and went over to his site. This caught my attention when he wrote that to show a couple falling for each other requires them to overcome some obstacle together rather than just talking about stuff.
I remember "Before Sunrise" was loved by critics and, I think, by audiences also and that was non-stop talking about stuff. There are other rom-coms that had couples falling for each other via "talking."
Which is more right? His obstacle/active techniques or talking to get to know each other technique or both? I always thought it was the later and that's why his comment caught my attention.